Mum told to stop breastfeeding in Nottingham library
A NEW mum with a nine-week-old baby has hit out after being ordered to stop breastfeeding in a city library.
Charlotte Murray, 24, said she was "embarrassed" after being confronted by security guards for feeding her son.
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Charlotte Murray with son Duncan
She was visiting the Contact Centre in Angel Row on January 26 to discuss housing benefit when her infant son Duncan became hungry – so she began to breastfeed him.
Miss Murray said she was then approached by a female security guard and told to stop feeding her child and move to a private room.
She said: "I was utterly offended and confused as I had to disturb my baby's feeding for what I can only assume to be the comfort and consideration of other people.
"If I didn't have a hungry baby, I probably would have challenged her, especially as no one else seemed to be bothered by me feeding my baby. I don't see any problem with breastfeeding in public – it's a natural thing to do and I didn't think I was being indecent.
"You see breasts printed in national newspapers and people don't mind, so I can't understand this."
Miss Murray, of Wells Road, St Ann's, said she believed stopping her from breastfeeding in public was against equality laws.
She added: "My partner couldn't believe it when I told him what had happened.
"As far as I know, it's against the law to stop women breastfeeding in public and it just doesn't seem right that a security guard could embarrass me and disrupt my child's feeding when there wasn't really a problem."
Hugh White, Nottingham City Council director of sports, culture and parks, said the authority was investigating the incident.
He added: "We wholeheartedly apologise if any mother is under the impression that she cannot breastfeed her baby in public buildings owned by Nottingham City Council.
"We can be very clear that Nottingham City Council welcomes breastfeeding mothers.
"We have spoken directly to Miss Murray and apologised to her for any misunderstanding.
"We've reassured her that she is welcome to breastfeed in council buildings and that, after the investigation, we will take any appropriate action needed to ensure this situation does not occur again."
And he went on: "We are sorry for any misunderstanding on this issue and would like to reassure all mothers that they are welcome to breastfeed their babies in our libraries, contact centres, leisure centres and any other public buildings."







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by rastalove
Thursday, March 15 2012, 12:44AM
“Not all mums are clever - some of them can't spell”
by wideass50
Wednesday, March 14 2012, 12:44PM
“I cant believe in this day and age what some people say. Breast is best this is well known, and if people dont like it then my advise is dont look, most mums are very clever and you would never no that they were feeding,all i can say is that some folk are prudes. Get a life and leave Mums alone, they are doing a fab job.”
by rastalove
Saturday, February 18 2012, 8:40PM
“I personally do not want to see women OR animals feeding their young.
I have had 4 children and think that breastfeeding is SO unnecessary these days, as we have perfectly good formula. We are not primitive animals that have to resort to such basic stuff.
I think that if it must be done at all, at least keep it private in your own home and not anywhere near me.
Good God, the mother has provided everything for the baby for 9 months so why does it have to hang on after birth?”
by Nottm_local
Monday, February 13 2012, 3:44PM
“Surely they were just offering you the chance to use a room should you have wished. People may not know they can be given a room should they wish!!”
by LKmummy
Friday, February 10 2012, 4:50PM
“Urinating and eating - similar?! I think not! Urinating in public is a criminal offence, eating in public is not! Would you be so objective to a toddler eating food? No because it doesn't come from a breast?! Last time I checked we are mammalian and by definition this is how we are supposed to feed our young! When you go to the zoo do you complain about the other mammals feeding their young? Turn over TV programs because a cow has out it's udders?! You don't because this would be silly!”
by Carl_1862
Friday, February 10 2012, 3:01PM
“WOW I can't believe that some people think that new mothers should be shoved in a room or made to hide away from people when feeding their children! What is it some dirty little secret?
When my daughter was being breast fed we found it very difficult to find places to feed her when out in Nottingham, my wife didn't want to do it in public for the very reason that Charlotte has experienced, resulting in her not wanting to go out (and wouldn't go out on her own) leaving her feeling depressed and isolated. There is not enough done by businesses and councils to promote breast feeding mothers, we found that boots were one of the better companies that provided for young mothers, yet there services were still not amazing (I have been in better toilets).
Well done for speaking up about this, but it's a shame you have had to experience this in the first place!
Carl”
by therealmetalmicky
Friday, February 10 2012, 2:07PM
“While I can see the point of this, surely a private room would be better for all concerned instead of making a big issue out of this, we all know breastfeeding is natural but so is urinating, I choose, unlike many, to urinate in private! courtesy is sometimes worth the effort!”
by Iddy_Lissesul
Friday, February 10 2012, 1:18PM
“Honey25297. Duncan won't take a bottle and why should I have to hide away to feed him? If he's hungry I will feed him no matter where we are.”
by SueandChris1
Friday, February 10 2012, 9:30AM
“It's hard to believe that in 2012 this debate still happens. I am quite sure that Charlotte Murray was not sitting naked from the waist up, willingly offending or pleasing all and sundry. The fact is that breastfeeding babies need feedng when they are hungry, not where and when security guards demand! Every breastfeeding mother I have ever met has fed discretely, and expressing and feeding by bottle is a completely different, and sometimes unachievable, experience, especially when the child is only 9 weeks old. I hope Charlotte's persistence encourages other mums to breastfeed in public, and that the City Council, and every other establishment, sees fit to promote the most natural and healthy start a mother could give her child.”
by 2Loose
Thursday, February 09 2012, 9:28PM
“Honey25279, I am sure she would have chosen a more comfortable place to feed if she could, but a hungry baby will not wait for that and demand food whenever. People have been feeding their babies forever, when did it become something to hide?”